Learning
to F.L.Y. (First Love Myself)
Living
by Proverbs 3:5-6
August
7, 2016
The following is my Angela Shelton workbook week 20, July 9, 2015
Discussion: If
you were going through surgery you would have to make a plan. You need to make
a plan to remove your sword, too.
If your child was wounded,
how would you comfort them?
I would first find out what was wrong, how severe it is, and then I
would do whatever I could to heal them – or help them heal. Whether it was
physical, emotional or spiritual. I would do whatever they needed and/or wanted.
What is the first thing that
comes to mind when you think about a plan to remove your sword?
What do I have to do? How do I do it? How long will it take? How
long will it take to heal once it is removed? Will things be different? Will I really be OK? What if it doesn’t
change anything?
Healing Worksheet:
My plan to remove my sword
would have to have:
·
TIME!
·
Time
to be alone with my Father in Heaven – to be still and quiet and listen to my
life.
·
Time with
Carl
·
Time
with Meredith, Allison and Tobie
·
A
quiet safe place – like my home – like JTH
·
A big
pillow I could punch, cry in or hold, tissues, essential oils, my favorite
blanket, sometimes quiet, sometimes music.
·
A
place to scream……….if I needed to.
If I had to tell my child
they had to have surgery, I would say:
This has to happen in order for you to be healthy. We will all
help you before, during and after your surgery. You can tell us anything you
can think of that you will need to help you heal from the surgery and we will
also help you think of things. We will help you manage the pain. We will
comfort you when it hurts and encourage you to do whatever it takes to heal.
Whatever it is you need us to do or not do, we will. We love you and you will
be better than you were before.
The following is my Angela Shelton workbook week 21, July 16, 2015
Discussion: You need help, support, a
place in which to remove it in the safest way possible, and a place to recover.
Where do you feel
safest? What are some places?
·
Home
·
Anywhere
with Carl
·
Journey
to Healing Lodge
Where is the first place you
would go if you were going to remove your sword?
·
My
home
·
Journey
to Healing with Meredith, Allison, Teresa, Bev, Aimee, Tobie
·
Bev’s
home
·
Meredith’s
home
Healing Worksheet:
I feel safest when I:
·
Am
with Carl, usually anywhere
·
With
Meredith
·
With
Bev
·
When
I am home, by myself, listening to music, pondering and praying and feeling His
Spirit
·
Journey
to Healing
·
Ellie
and Kyle’s home
·
Scott
and Jessalyn’s home
If I had to hide somewhere I
would go:
·
To my
home
·
To
Meredith’s home
·
To
Bev’s home
·
Cindy’s
home
·
Ellie’s
·
Scott’s
·
Kevann’s
home
Week 21 to Be Continued..........................
